I'll try to keep this brief gents, keep in mind I'm not a narcissist, I am just trying to be honest and get things out into the open, things I normally don't mention or talk about too much

I'm 22 year old Uni student; I'm intelligent, quick witted, smooth, athletic, confident, handsome, and have good style. I admit however, I grew into all these things and was not a ladies man in my younger years. Getting my way with woman has been a matter of trial and error.

At first (when I was 18) I started realizing woman enjoyed talking to me and loved the way I looked (I'm originally form the Mediterranean and look the part). I lost my virginity far to late - 19 - , because I would sabotage myself out of having sex with a girl. Even ones I would be in bed with; I would think something along the lines of "this one's not right". Looking back I definitely think I should have handled it much differently.

As things stand now I have beautiful woman eye me all the time, even stare. I have no problems approaching them, introducing myself, and sparking conversation. At the bars I have no problems getting most of the woman to dance, kiss, fool around, give me there #'s, etc... Often times I even have woman approach me and do all the work...

Now, the problems.... in light of all that I have said above, I am having entirely not enough sex! 2 problems, in social settings I become too friendly with girls way too often, and then I find it very hard to transition to a sexual relationship. The second problem, especially when I'm at a bar or the like, after I get a girl to kiss and what not, I just don't know what to do to move to sex. There's a moment where things are going great and then it's like hitting a wall, I literally think to myself, what the fuck am I supposed to do next? Then there's the dreaded awkward confusion as she realizes you don't know what to do, and then the whole thing goes to shit. Basically, my game is mediocre, at best, I rely on my looks and confidence to get woman interested but I lack the know how to really make use of that interest.

I read some of "The Game" but the whole plotted out approach to picking up woman did not appeal to me, seems too contrived. I certainly may give it a go though. I much prefer a natural approach and going with the flow of the situation. Stumbling across this website tonight I think I may have found a community that can give some advise regarding the above problems,

anyway, I look forward to frequenting the forums and am sure I will find useful information and experienced PUA's to pass on some adivce,

Cheers

Well last time I got laid after making out with a girl in London this one worked for me (if the sexual attraction is really there and you can see it, may also work for you):

"I'm actually from out of town so I would offer to show you my room"
"Oh its ok, I'll show you mine if you like"

That went pretty smoothly. I'm not saying that line is failsafe though you can probably offer to 'show her your room' if you can feel the vibes.

Also 19!? Who the fuck cares? I was 22 when I lost mine.