Hi. I am a guy. I am from Europe, I am 24 (edited in June 2011).

I am aware of seduction community more than a year. I want to improve my PUA abilities.

I have read many PU books. I have had 4 ONS, but that is not what I want. I want to become a PUA, I want to find a girlfriend and make her happy.

But I have some inner game problem. I hate the game. I hate the way women behave. I just hate it. They don't approach us, they just send us the IOIs. I consider it as a form of manipulation. It is like saying "I will not do anything and if the boy is interested, he can then approach me and I will send all my shittests I know to him, and see if he is good enough". I hate it. Why should I approuch a girl, if she is not going to approuch me? I don't like it. I think it is not fair. I, as a boy, have to approach a girl and she will just test me, if I am an alpha male or not. I don't like it. In addition on online dating services there is more guys than girls. Girls just do NOT appear on online dating as much as guys do. I don't like it. It is not fair. That way a girl will never be refused, because they never reveal her interest directly. And a boy will be refused, if is starts approuching. I don't like it. It is not fair.

I want to be a very good PUA, but I think I first have to solve this my inner game problem.

Hey, I know how you feel. It seems as though women came to an agreement. They know men are interested in them and that eventually someone will come along and approach them, it's because so many men approach women that they rarely feel the need to approach a man.

I think for alot of PUA's their goal is to have women chase them, to turn the tables.

Other PUA's however have a passion for the chase. And for those men if a girl doesn't give you a hard time there's no fun in it.

And as long as there are men chasing after women, they'll never feel the need to chase after us. We backed ourselves into a corner. If what you seek is to make women chase you, there are ways to accomplish this, but not many. Maybe work on different types of eye contact, and body language. I don't think it'll work on every girl but I'm sure you'll have a few chase after you.

Hope this helps,

dJ vIrAl

Hey, here is my current attitude to the seduction commnity:

Your life will be much easier if you come to accept things as they are. You can't change some things. You may feel this is conformist, but trust me, it's easier to conform in things you can't change. When you do, you will stop hating and start laughing. Good luck.

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

I do feel the same way.

It has to be accepted. Only by being supremely confident with conversational prowess. Will u be effective.

The more success u have the more positive u will be. I do contradict myself.

Sometimes a truth that is not positive is not one worth sharing. Better believe something which will make u smile.

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