| Hi guys,
Well, I never expected to be signing up here, but that's life. A bit about myself. It's a bit complicated, but I may refer people to this thread if they ever ask me what the hell is my situ at present.
Ok, I currently live with my g/f of several years. Things are going pretty badly, and I want out. Thing is, she doesn't accept the inevitable. Recent events have triggered me into starting to try picking up women...which is something foreign to me after several years with the same woman.
Four weeks ago I chatted up a woman - turns out she too is in a relationship with another guy, and we have got something going on. No sex, but heavy foreplay in some public places (as we both have partners, finding a bed is not only cheating on two people, but pretty difficult to arrange even if we wanted to). Anyway, as said, that started 4 weeks ago.
About ten days ago, I met another woman, single, who I really like. In fact, although the first one is maybe more exciting, this one is probably a better character. We've eaten and gone drinking together about 4 times so far, and we are getting closer.
I'm not into PUA stuff so that I can get a quick screw. That's not really my aim (I say that to deflect any comments about me not having bedded either of them yet). I'm more looking for a g/f replacement.
I'm in my late 30s, and time seems to be ticking by pretty fast.
So, that's my background. Still living with a long-term g/f, looking to get out of the relationship (and also will pretty soon need a new flat). I live in Germany, although I'm English speaking by birth. My german's not bad, but I prefer to chat to women in English....thoughts come faster that way, and I meet many women who are keen to practice their English with a 'native speaker'.
So there it is. Hope to see you guys around here from time to time. Now I have to write another post, as I have a specific Q regarding another woman...but I'll post that in the relevant place.
See y'all.
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