HI all,

I am a 31-year old guy living in Toronto, Canada. I have just stumbled on your forum because I have not been in a relationship for a very long time and find it very difficult to attract women and from where to go next in the process. Essentially, I am pretty clueless.

Luckily for me, I am a good-looking guy who works out religiously and the times I have had sex have been from women approaching me and initiating all the moves.

If it wasn't for those aggressive women, i am convinced I would still be a virgin!

that being said, I have terrible approach anxiety and want to learn the tools so I can meet an awesome girl for a relationship, hopefully leading to marriage one day!

The strange thing is, that I am very sociable and have quite a few female friends, i just cant get to the 'next' level. That 'alpha' - male inside me has yet to erupt (I blame it on my south asian upbringing of being mannerful, humble, respectful towards women and an all-around nice guy!).

I have read 'The Game' and have quite a few books/CDs/Videos on PU, but I would like to know which order I should read them in. I am currently reading 'The Mystery Method'....so I can see the process of seduction more than the canned routines.

I dont like the idea of canned routines as I am a pretty skilled conversationalist in my own right, I am looking more for 'inner game'.

thanks for reading and I hope I can meet a few cool cats in Toronto to go sarging with eventually (all my friends are married and it makes it difficult to do so)

Neo_Crisis