Let me begin by saying Im not sure what the theme of this message board is, but I hope its a gathering of gents trying to help each other along towards mighty success in life while using beautiful women as a bit of a motivation.

I recently discovered the term pua, but I suppose I have been one for about 4 years now. I read some really outdated stuff in 2005 but it still helped, none the less. My number is about 55 and these were all good looking girls, but only a few were true tens. Truth is if I could go back in time, I'd cross half of them off, I would. I believe that every time you sleep with a girl below your standards, you lower your own self esteem in the process.

When I look back at the last 4 years of my life as a pua. The most successfull periods that I've had by far have been when I was incredibly passionate about life. The more you have your mind on worthwhile goals and off of women, the more they find you irresistable. Im talking about things like

-Find a career that you absolutely love.

- Being a people person. enjoy talking to strangers, people FEED off eachothers energy. Who are the happiest people you know? The people who talk to evvveryone.

- Being fit. exercising/sleep/nutrition. Mind and body work together. When they are in perfect harmony, special things can happen for anyone. The problem is that most of us eat all kinds of crap, have incredibly varied sleep schedules, and dont exercise 5 times a week for 30 minutes like we should. If we did, the benefits would be mind boggling.

Anyway, the bottom line is that we can all agree on something. If there was one word for what women want in men, that word would be confidence. Now we can learn all the techniques in the world, and fake our confidence. The fact is that we can do it very well with all of the experts that we have at our disposal. We might even bed her the night we meet her. If we want to land and keep a beautiful, sexy, amazing women however, then we have to work on ourselves first. Setting goals for the the next day, the next month, and the next years of your life are the most important things you can do.

You can live a life by design, or a life by default. We all have the choice