Any muslims here? if so continue reading(if your not you can aswell x)

Hey guys =). as you all figured out by now, i am new to this forum.
just quick about my self: Living in norway,20,student.

Anyways what i realy wanted to ask you all is:

I have been sarging for some months now, and my story is that i have always been a normal kid, every one liked me cuz i am nice and so on in school, but because of my religion. I am a muslim.
i never went to any partys even thos i got invited every time somthing happend. So i was socialy accepted by everyone but beause of my religion i havnt had so much contact to woment as i would liked. So after i graduated, i went to the military for 1 year and had alot of spare time, and with no parents there what so ever, i kind of did alot of partying! =), but as that year came to the end, i had to make silly excuses to go out and party with my friend when i was home. But slowely i kind of gave a fuck about what my parents said, even thoe coming home late ment 2hours of talk with my parents telling my about islam and what you are doing is not right.. you get the idea.. and as tmy social life realy got started, i relized that i couldnt handel women, i got realy good respoms from everyone but i didnt know what to do. thats how i evetully, ''googled'' and found out about the book ''the game'' as every 1 else LOL. so i started sarging and i got this hell with my family, i went out many more nights then what i normaly did. So the relastionship with my famliy got to a point where i was in my room all day avoidng any contact. So this kind of is stil going on.. and with women being a bigger part of my lief now i can imagine i will in the end leave my family and they will never talk to me again. Somthing i dont want since they are important to me. So was wondering if any in other in this forum have been going trough somthing verry similar, since i realy dont what to do... and this is killing me from the inside that i cant talk to my familiy in the same way i used too..realy sad =(.

Come to Christianity! Worship god, and get with girls no problem! as long as your not immoral about it, it should be fine.

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because Christianity would go over real well with his family.

I am not sure I understand what would make you a "bad muslim" for simply hanging out with more girls unless your family is uber conservative and say that you shouldn't do so because those girls aren't muslim and don't wear burkas or something.

If thats the case, I reccommend having the "hard conversation" with them until they come to see your position as legitimate, and that you still truly care about being a good muslim.

Hi Jawad,

I am not Muslim, but i am a professional PUA Coach for GetmetheGirl so my job is to help guys out there in whatever situation! I have muslim clients who when coming on my courses have asked to avoid bars and clubs for gaming and actually focus on other areas to game.

First things first, we must respect your parents and religion. If going out and partying is what you want to do then i suggest you ask your parents to listen to your point of view with an open mind. Living in a European culture, you have no choice but to adapt to European ways of life so of course sticking to religion is more difficult. They will understand that.

Secondly, you may well think that to get girls you must go out and party, but i talk to more women in the daytime in social places such as shopping centres, than i do in bars and clubs. And with more success! When i escalate with these women and it comes to going on a 'casual date' with them, the last thing i would do with them is go out and party with them, and chose date ideas that would even comply with your religion and can be cheaper than a night out!

I suggest you give me a quick email, and i will send you some more information on meeting girls in other areas than bars and clubs, and fun and exciting date ideas.

Look forward to helping you more,

Jamie Cole
GetmetheGirl

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Sounds like a supreme marketing ploy.

My advice is to avoid the above comment at all cost haha..

As a Muslim your allowed 4 wives, but to do good with one, id say you have to develop some social skills. The things is, your parents will want you to intermarry with someone else's daughter, arranged marriage, but at the end of the day your a man and you decide.. well... are you a man? will you decide ? thats the first question.

Examine your religious views, and ask yourself is your belief based on your merits or your families? keep in mind apostasy in your religion is punished severely! but your in the free world now.

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Really Impact?

Sorry for trying to help the guy out!

If it was a plan to make money out of the guy, i wouldnt offer it for free!

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Unless you're really sneaky.
He may have been just stating his credentials as if to say "I give really good advice".

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aaahaha..caught red handed...Fatality!
Super Epic Fail!

ouch.

friendly guys! GetmetheGirl is a hobby of mine, CareCall UK is my cash earner.


killed the topic for Jawad, im sure he would rather you gave some advice rather than question my intentions

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