hey every1 names Steven,

basically liked this chick for a couple years then finally made a move and the kiss wasnt great but still wanted to hook up but she wanted to be friends so we hang out and i still want to hook up with her but i want to branch out and start having the option of different women instead of this one girl and be done with this confusing bullshit. Have been reading articles and some ebooks and really want to change for the better so im glad to be surrounded by people who are in the know and look forward to being a PUA and not an AFC. And if you also reside in scottsdale or tempe pm me and well sarge always looking for more friends/wings out here

Cheers,
Steve

Hey Steven,
Welcome to the forum mate!

First off, congratulations for making that move on the girl! Many would have just accepted the fact that nothing was going to happen, but you made a move Kudos for that!

Second, i understand your need to get over 1-itis, and to branch. But one thing i've found is that, when you initially start (i've been in the game for about 9months) you get excited and pumped that you're having success with women.
The results come, you feel even better about yourself.. i myself have to keep a note on my iPhone acting as a list of all the girls i'm 'on' with SPAM haha
But, that aside, i've found that after a while, it all becomes 'easy', and you kinda feel abit removed from the girls, and it's like, you try to fill this 'void' in ur life with women, but to actually fill it, u need some TLC from some one-itis haha it's really good when she feels the same way about you. The reason PUA's say OMG one-itis is sooo bad, is when she doesnt feel the same way about you and it screws your whole game all for nothing. But when the feelings are reciprocated, that's when you feel 'complete'.

Anyways, that may just be me
Enjoy the game, Enjoy the Results, and CHARGE through them sticking points. Have Fun, it's what it's all about.

I wish you all the best in your transformation from AFC to PUA, and if you need anything mate, just drop me a line.

Cheers,
~ Fr33stylez

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- Make Your Life The One You Want, Not The One You Were Given...

- Always have fun and the rest will come

Seriously man, sign up on MySpace or a dating site and game a list of chicks online and forget about that girl. It's a lot easier online anyway and you still get laid! Then later that chick will want you to fuck her once she knows you're getting laid like a rockstar.

Your absolutly right it felt like i ad this void and the one1tis was the perceived person to fill it. But after the shady crap she pulled im done and im excited to just start having fun with women and not focusing on the relationship part..Great point i agree 100% and im already meeting up with some ppl on here to go out and get this new journey moving..
Thanks for the words and i will be following this forum reguarly and good luck to you out in the game as well

Cheers,
JP