| Hey team,
Been studying this stuff for years but this is the first time on this forum. Looks pretty awesome, not gonna lie. I'm 32, have been dating 2-3 girls at any given time for the last 5 years. Every year, skill gets better and so do the girls as my knowledge and expertise develops. In short, it’s a great journey and this is a great community.
Let me run a recent situation by you guys.
I met this cool hot 25 year old Asian girl at the club 2 weeks ago, game tight, got her number all good. After a week of us being too busy, but sending some good txts, we meet up for drinks. She said she only had one hour cause of finals in the morning, i kept her out for 4, a venue change and solid car makeout. Could not really have gone any better. Txts me the next day, barely studied hope she passed w/e. Great repour tho. 3 days later, Sat morning we go for breakfast, end up and my house (by design – house is clean and pimp) hang out for 5 hours, makeout but didn’t press more, but all good. Green light, but i had to go, she had to study for 3 more finals this week, etc. Tell her I’ll call her later. I'd put her level of interest at least a 9/10 (v high).
Call the next day in the afternoon, left a short message to call me back.
No call back and still nothing. Now that was Sunday, today is Thursday.
Keep in mind, I know when I’ve made a mistake, screwed something up, the dynamic was bad etc. But this was the opposite, all good, she’s pumped.
Left a msg and nothing. I can honestly say, at that level of success in an interaction, I’ve never had that happen, not when you know the girl is into you.
What would you do?
A) Not call, ball is in her court. She could be busy... no further contact says all the right stuff
B) txt her something funny/sarcastic/challenging, get her to re-engage
C) call her, talk or leave a message
D) None of these, something else, explain
BTW – going out with a different girl tonight, keeping busy dating but would like to hear advice on the above.
Thanks bros
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