So theres this girl, shes 17 and im 20, we were friends for over 2 years, when i 1st met her we were both in separate relationships, but last summer in a club as we were both single i made my move, and we kissed for a bit but nothing else came of it and i didnt see her for ages and things kinda cooled off.

When i was back from uni at xmas, i did the same thing again in a club, made out on the dance floor for a while untll the night was over, and again, i didnt see her for ages after as shes a busy and popular girl.

This summer, i decided id make an effort to meet up with her more. So after seeing her afew times and failing to make a move, 2 weeks ago i kissed her goodbye on the lips and we kissed for a while, and im determined not to let things cool off again. However she works all the time and is busy, and its difficult to meet up with her. What do i do, and how do i make her want to see me more?

Thanx

Hey!

This is probably the wrong forum for this topic, but I'll try to help you out.

1) The situation you are in is a bit unclear, all tough it should be outside the friend-zone:)
The obvious thing is that you need to see her in order to escalate. There is many different ways to do this, however, some are better then others.

My personal favorite is to introduce a subject, for example coffee or ice cream or something of your preferences. Then tell her straight-forward.

- "I really have an urge to get ____. You should tag a long!"

If she is usually busy then another thing is to introduce another subject.
What I like to do in other to introduce this is to call her. Get a conversation going, introduce the subject and if she seems interested just ask her when she is free.

2) Attraction is a lot like tension, or in other words, hoping for the unexpected. In other ways a good way to get attraction is through tension. Mehow got a nice example of this.

- "Hey, it's Mehow. I'll talk to you later."
What he does is sending the message around 12pm in the morning.
Then follow up with a call around 00am in the evening.

Hope you get the concepts:)
- Exerio