Good morning everyone, I am 23 and live in south east England, I found my way here because I am halfway through reading Neil Strauss's 'The Game'. I have been reading it to my housemate aloud for the past week and we are finding the whole thing fascinating.

I am here for two main reasons, I am a trainee counsellor (like a talking therapist, emotional distress, depression, bereavement, that kind of thing). So the whole area of social dynamics at play, group dynamics, NLP, the mechanics of conversation, how people seek a sense of self worth is just fascinating to me.

Also the past few months I have been in a place of low self-esteem. In some ways this has been good for forming relationships with girls because I can finally empathise with them properly when they express signs of low self esteem and really pick up on the emotion behind what they are saying (the counselling training helps a lot with that too). But I expect this is very likely to land me in the friend-zone.

So from the experience I feel like I understand girls a lot better, but I am now in a place where I want to turn my self-esteem around, and it seems like sarging may be a way to start that process (either by successful sarging itself, or through the confidence exercises to be a successful sarger).
Also sex is great.

My main sticking point at the moment comes from a lack of self-worth I think, when I approach a group or an individual, I go in with the mentality that I am bothering them, that I am a nuisance. I am working on turning that around so that I have the mentality that when I approach someone, I believe me entering their lives is the best thing that will ever happen to them, and that my time and my company is a treasure.

Thankyou for your time. I am excited to be here and look forward to finding a good sarging name!