Hi everyone,

I'm a 21 year old AFC from the UK. I'm here after a couple of months of reading up on the subject and finding it pretty intriguing.

I wouldn't class myself with those who completely freak out in social situations, have no love life etc... I've always been very good at comfort building (I say good, I mean I've pulled it off well in the few occasions where this has been an option).

I very rarely truly connect with girls, and when I do they'll have something really awesome going for them (based on 3rd party evidence, not just my perception). I guess I'm a guy that girls can trust, and sometimes totally fall for.

My problems lie mostly with AA, which I see as the remnants of teenage insecurities. I've reached the point where I have no problem meeting new people within a safe environment. For instance at a party, through mutual friends, perhaps even in a college lecture. My problem lies with cold approaches, or even approaches following IOIs, simply because the person is a stranger with no visible connection with me. I'll chat away at a house party, but then freeze up in a bar or nightclub.

Oh, I also suck at kiss-closing, unless I've had a few drinks. I guess 'pulling the trigger' is something that is also outside my comfort zone.

So I'm here first and foremost to fix these two issues. And then also to hone my game, and improve my inner game.

Unlike those with no self confidence, I have frustration that I'm not fulfilling what I know could be an awesome potential. I've had a few magic moments where 'the game' has gone literally perfectly, and I'm looking to make this happen more often.

I look forward to meeting you all,

Mapper.

EDIT: I'm jumping on the newbie mission as soon as opportunity strikes.