| Hi,
I'm new to the game. I've just come out of a long-term relationship and my friends that run game have been waiting for this day for a long-time. Apparently I have raw talent but I just need the game to harness it.
I'm only on p170 of Strauss but I've been putting everything I learn into practice as I go. Last night was classic:
I went sarging with a friend in Manchester UK. We entered the bar, the main aim of the evening was for me to increase my friends confidence and show him a few principles. I sat us down in front of two 6s - we all have to start somewhere! to our left was a nice set of five. My friend just kept checking everyone out, trying to make eye contact with all the women, he wasn't interest in me he just wanted to get laid. I explained that in order to be a good PUA you have to be different to all the other guys in the bar - fuck the woman, we're here because we enjoy each others company, if they want to talk to us they can but whilst he's leering at them that's never gonna happen. So we get into deep convo about a couple of the basic principles of game. This is better, we instantly raise our attractiveness by showing that we don't need a woman to enjoy ourselves.
Two other guys approach the 5 set - balls. One of them is shy and hovering, the other has obviously read the game. He shows them a card, is this magic...probably. He gets burnt almost instantly - they're not interested, he persists but gets nowhere - he hovers around them a while longer like fly to shit but eventually gives up a pisses off - lame. This does not bode well.
I carry on explaining the game to my friend. 3 from the set of 5 leave - I've still got my back to them. So now we have a set of two in front and a set of two to my left. one of the girls to the left gets up to go to the bathroom. Straight away my friend is telling me to talk to the girl on her own, he's really pushy but I put my foot down. "you never approach a girl on her own" tell me when her friend gets back. I couldn't believe this, I was about to start my first pattern.
She returned and I let them talk for a second. Then I turned to them, interuppted and asked "can I bother you girls for a minute?" My friend has been texting me all night, apparently him and his gf have fallen out really badly. She checked his phone and saw he had missed calls and texts from his ex - personally I think she should just trust him and they're making a mountain out of a molehill - what do u girls think? BLAH BLAH BLAH... they're into the convo, now I need to demonstrate value "so was their break up messy? No it just didn't really work once we came to medical school" Oh wow, you're medics?, we're doctors they cooed - PERFECT. I introduce my friend at this point but I'm completely blocking him. We're sat in a line of 4, I can keep things going with the girls but he can't get a word in cos my bodies in the way - fuck it, I get up and walk to other side of the table the sit down in front of the girls - now we're all involved equally.
My friend tries to dominate the conversation, I lose interest and turn to the other two girls that we'd initially been sitting opposite to. Someone's leg is shaking the table (obviously my friend is nervous) but I turn to the nearest girl and say "is that you shaking the table, it's bloody annoying"...luckily they both had accents - "where are you from?" "guess" BLAH BLAH. Oh you're polish, there's a beautiful polish girl at work, can you teach me some polish so I can impress her...BLAH BLAH. The two foreigners are now proving my value to the doctors by laughing at everything I say. They want to know where I'm from, they don't know the town so I start trying to draw a map but pretend I'm shit at geography. I turn to the doctors - could you explain to this lovely girl where X is in relation to Birmingham. The blonde doctor starts drawing a fucking map - I start negging her, she's obviously up herself, you could tell from the way she spoke. So now the whole groups involved, 2 sets of 2 become one of 4 - I want the blonde doctor - she has great tits.
I ignore the doctors and carry on my conversation with the foreigners, eventually they have to go - I think I negged the croatian a little too much but I could tell she still wanted it. They get up and I use the "kiss" pointing to my cheek line - just to make it clear to the doctors that they both wanted me. They leave. If this was home and not Manchester I would definitely have gone back to their hotel with them.
Back to the doctors...my friend is still talking to the blonde - he called dibs on her prior to initiating the pattern, cheeky git. He still wasn't getting the aim of the night. It's midnight, we were supposed to leave at 10 - we have work the next day. Time to show him that he needs to read the game and start understanding where I'm coming from. We're now sitting at the table as a four, the girls are opposite each other and myself and my friend are as well. I ask him what he wants to drink and ignore the women. I go to the bathroom and decide there's no way we're getting out of here - he hasn't got the confidence to number close but he isn't going to leave anytime soon. Fuck the drinks I walk back to the table and tell him we should leave soon, I sit myself smack bang in between both girls and start negging the blonde massively - trust me it was needed, she was a tad too posh for her own good. I flirt some more and then say, "it would be really nice to have a drink with u next time I come to birmingham, can I get your number?" she said yes. As I took it I realised that i'd increased her ego slightly so I bought it back down by explaining that we'd got lost tonight so it would be good to meet with someone who knew where they were going. My friend didn't even notice me number close.
I made it clear we should be leaving, everyone agreed and we got up and left the bar together - I offered to walk them home if they lived in a 5 minute radius but if not we couldn't be arsed. They gave us directions back to our car and I thought maybe I could kiss close now. I went to the brunette first and gave her a peck on both cheeks, then I went to the blonde and did the same but added a peck on the lips. Then we left.
My friend started moaning about wishing he got her number and saying about how if we had her number BLAH BLAH...I showed him her number in my phone. He was impressed. He's now bought "the game" and wants to go out again asap.
All in all a good night.
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TovRa
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