Hey guys,

I'm 33 and very new to the game. Now this doesn't quite mean I've been sitting on my arse till this age, however, whatever fell my hands so far I'd say it was in the low value target/struck of luck category.
I heard about da game once I started to worry about my skills or the lack thereof, so I finally landed here. I can say I have some minor insights on how things could be done or improved but nothing serious.

About a month ago I met a chick online on a social networking, we got to talk and find more about each other, reaching some depth in conversations. She even stated she'd do anything to have a long term relationship with me which sounded darn good at the time (and lowered my guard somehow and making me relax about "details"). About her: 5.5, 33 years old, magnetic personality and I still can't fully describe it by using that word, very active (unlike me), she can attract any man in an instant if she wants to although she's not beautiful.

When I finally met her in Atlanta, we had a wonderful 3 day week-end except that at the end she told me that she wants us to be just friends. That really left puzzled to say the least. I had in mind different scenarios:
- it was something wrong with the sex part but I know for sure she had multiple orgasms and she didn't fake them (she was shaking).
- counting on the fact she wants a long term relationship, I did lower my guard, let my inner wuss fully express himself and didn't pay too much attention to the clothing part (she later stated she likes a pedant and elegant man, which I can be if I get to prepare properly).
- now that I have the LBJF label stuck on me, is there anything I can do to salvage this wreck? I wasn't rude afterwards, but I feel like I left an image of whining needy pussy asking for a second chance.
- I know I should probably move on, which is what I'm sort of doing at the moment but I still cannot get over the fact I got refused after we got laid, knew each other very well AND liked (I know for a fact this). I'm worried that if the next chick plays me this way, I'm really getting into a conundrum here.

I have all the bad symptoms described in the legend: AFC, oneitis, inner wuss, AA, I'm relatively shy.. so I'm waiting for some thoughts on this. I know I HAVE TO DO something.

P.S. Disregard the self applied title of PUA, I have a ton of work till there.