hey Evo. Nice ideas, its still hard though isnt it because of being programmed to act in a "correct" way. I read your post thinking it would be another post about evolutionary links to courting, like going caveman... Im a palaeontologist so I like to have a giggle sometimes!
Iv had similar thoughts and problems to overcome in my life, still do and im sure everyone has.
Let me know how you get on buddy, Im interested to see how this positive frame of mind gets you going!

I am reading Styles book; The Game. & So far I have learned a lot but you can only learn so much from straight knowledge, expirence is what makes an expert so I might try a shop. I'm goin into the field tomorrow I am meeting a black haired 9, I'll report back when I'm through. I will try some PUA tricks deff using NEG's since she's used to the attention. Hopefully learning will be the end to the friend zone, I am counting on everyone to help me out, no one ever makes it on their own. If you like Style's books deff read Malcom Gladwells, The tipping point & Outliars, it kind of goes into Mysterys Group theory aswell as the rich and the famous & how they became what they are.