Hi everyone,

I've been reading the threads on here for a while and decided to sign up, just a few questions I would appreciate your comments on.

I'm 20YO, male, from Halifax, UK. I am quite successful with women as it goes, confident, and not so much 'afraid' to approach or chat to total strangers. Thats not to say I chat to anyone like a crazed loner, I have slight approach anxiety with really good looking women but give me a few pints and i'l get over it.

The main problem I have is of people thinking or assuming i'm gay, people ask me if i'm gay quite often, possibly because i'm quite fassionable and wear clothes such as gucci shoes and waistcoats, could be because I'm not totally masculine, not violent at all, I much prefer to talk my way out of a situation. Not a large guy either, so I can imagine why people ask me.

I've been told i'm attractive by many people which only boosts my confidence, and women do approach me, I'm interested in your opinion...


Do you think women will assume I'm gay and not bother, or is it a good thing, women don't feel intimidated because they assume i'm gay, or are put off by it?

I don't really care what other people think, but if it effects my game?

Looking forward to the responses.

Will K.