| Hey guys!
I'm pretty new to all of this...I've scratched the surface of Style's book as well as his two-book Rules of the Game. I've listened to The Mystery Method on CD while getting ready in the AM.
My current situation though is this...life is freaking hard. I'm not depressed or moping, I'm a young, decent-looking guy who is practicing law full time...which means FULL TIME. And it often still only barely pays the bills. All this means is that I rarely have time to go out, have lost much of my social network, and even when I may have a free evening am usually flat out exhausted and want to do nothing more than crash. AFC? Quite probably.
Anyway, I also have this issue...which I'll put in the inner game section so that maybe some of you will give me some advice, because I'd really like it...I dated a great girl. We met a year ago this week - I had actually gone to HS with her, but we did not speak back then because we ran with different crowds. Anyway, she was great, but also a single mom, full time employee, and full time student...she didn't have time for me. We broke up in September, but I still have trouble wondering where she is, who she's with, why hasn't she called, and being frustrated or hurt with the thought that not only will I likely hear from her again, but that she once suggested I would if her life ever settled down. At the same time, I've recently started a FWB situation with a girl who is super cute, younger than me, fun in bed, but who is a secretary for one of my bosses. She's great...but yeah....that's not going anywhere fast.
So I'm looking for a complete reset. I'm also having NO idea how to go about it. I'm tired of being 32 and perpetually single, and I'm also tired of years after the fact learning I could have dated some really cute girls but never had the stones to ask, only to have them tell me that I should have! I'm not getting any younger, and it's time, IMO, to live life. I'm looking forward to this!
Princeton.
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