I live on a tiny tropical island in the south seas. Basically, I live in paradise; well at least it's paradise lost.

The natives here are not very nice and I'm worried they might cook me in a pot of boiling water. The expats here are mostly religious zealots and crusty old pensioners. This not an island that gets bikini babes - there is almost no tourism, so it's me and the others that live here.

For it being tropical paradise, my attitude is clearly wayyyyy out of sync. Part of my motivation for moving here was what I learned from the community: improve inner game by making yourself a a better person by doing more interesting things. So here I am (both in paradise, and back in the community).

I have followed PUA for 3 years and was active in my local lair in Arizona, which is where I moved from. I stopped posting on the local board about a year and a half ago when I got into an LTR. As soon as I realized I was in paradise lost I signed up here to look into getting back my congruence and calibration to have a good time.

Posts from tropical paradise to follow!