27 years old, single again, thoroughly impressed with a lot of the psychology and techniques that have quickly come to light. I'm not the type that has problems with women, had plenty of girlfriends, got a good look, and a great career. But something I heard keeps floating around in my head. A comment to the effect, my relationships are pro-longed one night stands. This basically was the case with my ex. She pushed from day one, she pushed all the way till I booted her out my front door. Ha. Hoping someone may teach me some things that might help my current scenario.

While dating my ex, my local bartender always would awkwardly throw in, "I really like your girlfriend." She would do this while we were having fun flirting, me neging her, and I always would catch in my peripherals her looking at me. She's got game too, which I love. She'll dish right back at me. Why would she through the girlfriend comment in? My thought was I had done something to make our chit chat awkward. Now I'm wondering if it was actually an "IOI." Again I'm new but I think it means Indicator of Interest. Ha, thinking about it, she used to always compliment my girl, but I always perceived them as her making fun of my girl. (My girl was a gorgeous big tittied natural blonde)

So I'm going through my phone looking for old girls numbers the other day. I get to a contact that's name is in code. Haha, my ex was known to go through my phone and be always jealous. So I decode it, and its that same bartender's number. I know she doesn't have my number. So my question:

What is a good cell phone game/technique to get me in there? Is there one, or do I need to go about getting her number again? Don't really got anyone else to ask about this, my boys are all pussies....haha.