Hi,

First of all I would like to say that I am happy to have found this fantastic place. Great to see how people are helping out each other! Nice one!

I am joining this forum as I need some serious help. I am just unable to start conversations with women and when I am lucky enough to speak to some I fancy, it normally ends up without any success.
So here is my story. I am quite a good looking guy and am able to be funny once I am in my comfort zone, but have the big problem not to get laid. I have been living in various countries and have always had my chances, but messed them up constantly, since I am always thinking of worse scenarios. I have been quite succesful in my professional life and I am quite a happy man and I reckon my life would just be perfect would I date and sleep with more women. I keep telling myself that my time will come and that one day I will be in a position to chat with mates about ex-girlfriends, one night stands and how I picked up this and that girl, but it took me until now to realize that I need to change myself as quickly as possible to do so. Now I hope that my introduction here is the first step in the right direction.

I hope that one day I will be able to send some newbies here a link to this post and tell them "Look where I have been and where I am now" in order to give them hope and motivation. I have two big aims, that I want to achieve here. Being the first to overcome my fear of chatting up women and to get laid. And the second is to be able to help guys who are facing the same problem, once I have been able to complete the first aim.

I will use this thread to update everyone on a regular basis how I am improving and what I have achieved to fight my anxiety. I will do this as I hope it will push me to keep myself going with the whole PUA thing and that it will end up in a succes story.

That's it for now. Good luck to all of you!