Hi Everyone.

I'm new to the forum and I'd like to show you my profile.


I'm a 19 yo Italian guy from a small town near Milan. I've always been fascinated by the myth of Casanova since I first read his biography. I read the game and collected most of the recomended books on pick up.

I've always been an AFC. No popularity, no good friends. Till the end of high school my life consisted in study and basketball.

Now I'm attending the first year of marketing in university, and I really feel the lack of a social circle.
Actually, I've improved a lot in style, inner game, PUA techniques, i got dates and sex...and I'm constantly getting better...

The problem is that I have nobody to hang out with.
Most of the guys around my town already have their own "crew" and don't want because they remember me as the AFC I was before.
And all the friends of mine are deeply close-minded: they just want to go to a pub and drink beer..to them a disco is too extreme, ice skating is for jerks, go kart too expensive, snowboarding too hard, softair too far...

So my problems are 2:
- i need a social circle, but I don't know how
- I want to demonstrate to my old friends that I've radically changed

Is it possible to game without a social circle? alone?
Please help me

Thank you
peace
Sancho

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Firstly, welcome to the community.

Now, I'm no expert, but I would personally try and get one of your closest, oldest friends to join the game with you.

It might be hard to convince him at first, so be prepared to explain yourself a lot. It's a little risky, but provided he fully commits, you'll have yourself a long-term wing you already know and trust.

I'm sure he'll thank you for introducing him to the game when he grasps what it's all about.

I can't say if this is a good or a bad idea, I would suppose it depends on your friend's personality. This is something I would consider doing, but I can't say it would definitely be benificial to you.

That's a good idea..Thank you!
Well, it means that I need to pick up a man before picking up a chick!!

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Hey San. My grandfather is from Sorrento, whoop whoop.

Yes, you can game without a social circle. It definately helps to have friends to go out with and stuff though, so you really do wanna work on that. When I go out to bars or whatever, I always have people with me - but I always approach girls by myself, and I rarely bring them into my group. So, it wouldn't really matter if they weren't there. Same with during the day, if I'm out with people I tell them to sit tight so I can go talk to a girl and I don't mention that I'm out with anyone (they never ask). You'll find that if you're out by yourself in any situation, girls aren't gonna assume you have no friends, cos if you can approach and talk to them, the confidence behind that suggests that you're a social guy.

Nobody is paying enough attention to you to really care if you're by yourself anyway. If you walk into a club by yourself, people assume your friends are already inside... just talk to random people, say stupd shit and randomly high five them or whatever. Get vibing and have some fun, talk to some girls without trying to hit on them then once you're in the swing of things up the ante and start gaming.

You can build a social circle this way aswell. I've seen random people I talked to in clubs when I've been riding the bus or in shops or whatever and exchanged numbers with them, and gotten random party invites and stuff. Alternatively, you could join a club or something or start hanging out with people from school/work. Once you get to know a girl better she won't care if you don't have many friends, and if she thinks it's weird and doesn't wanna spend any more time with you then she's not the sort of person you wanna be with. After all, you want her to like you for who you are.

- Sol

Good point sol.

Hi San,

Just a quick post to say there are several sites on the internet for finding wingmen. I've just found myself one through P.A.I.R.

You can find it here:

(http://www.fastseduction.com/pair.shtml)

Hope this helps and good luck!

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Nothing much to add but to say welcome and that you're one lucky bastard to be sarging in Italy....Last time i was there my jaw was stuck on the floor from the sheer beauty of the average Italian woman

Good luck bro

Thank you Sol, thanks everybody
It is true: I can pick up without my friends around me.
Once I get into a club, I open a lot of sets just to get in a social mood, then I concentrate on girls. Even if I dont have many "close" friends, i almost know anybody at university and when I get out, in few minutes i easily become the "social superman" of the club/pub/whatever.
So..it works!

Sancho

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