Hi I am a sweet guy (the exes words), Met a the first woman who wanted me for the first time and stuck with her for 10 years. I just broke up with her. We had some problems for some time,I was afraid I could not get anybody else, but lost all my fealings for her so I had no choice.
I need to get started, but freeze up usually when there is a chance.

Hope you can give me some adwise. I really just need to decide on something and go for it, and i desberately need some technique. There are so many theories if you can point me in a direction you think would work for me I would be very gratefull. I read the game, so I thought one of the pua books could be a start, but wich one? hence the poll.
also if you of any good websites in demark please let me know.

So pratically do I?
* join a gym work out and gain some mucles,
* I could go out at bars on my own trying some technique that works for me (need help here!!)
* go netdating
* join some leasure activities
tried tennis, aikido (martial arts), volley ball, art painting before but I am not currently doing anything)
* Or talk to random women in the street. So how do I get started best.

I am 31 and 185 cm heigh i weigh 75 kilos with nice eyes, slim but not very buff, an engineer but not very rich, when from Denmark the tax is one of the highest. I am terribly lazy have a hard time getting up in the morning, washing my clothe and cleaning up. ( the x pointed this out!!)