Hello everybody. My name is Johnny. I am so glad I found this website!

I don't know when it happened or how, but at some point within the last 5 to 8 years I lost all my confidence when it comes to dealing with women. Before I was married (I'm divorced now) I thought I had pretty decent luck with women. I made out with every good looking girl in my school in junior high, but once I got older, I lost whatever charm I had back then. I've been with 10 girls, all but 2 of them were before I was 23. I'm 30 years old now, and it seems I've lost all of my ability to flirt, talk, dance, laugh or even say anything clever when a pretty girl comes around. I get so God Dam nervous when they're around that I fuck everything up. I am too afraid to be comfortable with myself when they're around. I want them so badly. Women are so beautiful and I want them to like me so badly that I just freeze up. Don't get me wrong, it's not like I sit in a corner and not say anything to them. It's just that I say stupid ass shit because I'm also afraid of being quiet one. I just know that the stuff I say doesn't display the kind of confidence that they're attracted to. In fact, it probably doesn't display any confidence at all.

Sometimes I do actually find a girl that I click with naturally, but before the night is over, I have been put into the friendship category (I swear I hate being put in the friendship category more than I hate being rejected). I always thought that I would eventually meet someone that I would have natural chemistry with. Someone that would be sexually attracted to me and like me for who I am without having to rehearse or memorize routines or lines, but I don't know anymore. I want to be able to entertain them and keep their attention. If I ever do meet the right girl, the one that is perfect for me. I don't want her slip away because I was too nervous to be myself in front of her, or too self-conscious to do anything about it.

I can't be like this anymore! I have to overcome this, and I'm asking for your guy's help! Please enlighten me. I have potential. I am sure of it. I am a very good looking man from what the girls have told me, but as soon as I open my mouth they lose interest.

I can't believe I am this desperate! I have no confidence, and from what I've been reading, that is the main ingredient for girls to be attracted to you. I need help! I am teachable, sincere, funny (unless there's a girl around! lol) and I need to do better than I have been. I live in Reno, NV and am willing to travel. I have read "The Game" and a couple of other resources, but I have yet to apply them. I need someone to practice and gain experience with. I know there are seminars and workshops for this kind of thing, but I don't have too much money right now, and I'd rather have a mentor that could show me the ways. Either way, if somebody could get me started in the right direction I would be so grateful.

What do you think?