Well playr whatta bout ye?

Let's answer those questions.
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Have any of yas read the rules of the game and took part in the 30 day challenge?
Not personally, although I hear it's good. I'd say the 30 day thing would be great to help you overcome approach anxiety and get you out of your comfort zone to get you used to this kinda stuff, so definately give it a go. Just make sure to stick at it and do all 30 days. On top of that, there are a few simple things which you can remind yourself of, to rid yourself of AA and all the other crap guys worry about... all it takes is a little realisation. I'll talk to you about that stuff another time though.
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Is the best way to get good to learn canned material to use when sarging?
Canned material = metaphorical training wheels. If you don't know what to say to get a conversation going, you can use canned stuff. It's there for those situations in your early learning stages where your mind goes blank and you can't think of how to approach. I wanna point out that you're far better off coming up with your own canned stuff, as opposed to the studd you find online, because it has a more personal feel to it and you will come across as much more genuine.
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How much of gaming is confidence compared to what you say?
Confidence is key. Your words mean nothing without confidence behind them... if you're not actally confident in your actions and how others will respond to you, you tend to be less relaxed and can overthink things (and people can see this). You won't be completely confident starting off, but it will definately build over time. Once you see how well people actually react to you, and you start relaxing into what you're doing, everything just falls nicely into place.
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I have good looks but a lack of confidence whats the best way to improve it?
Get off your arse and do the things you're afraid of. Remember, courage is not the lack of fear - it's taking action
despite fear. I've been doing this for like 5 years and I still get that little feeling in my stomach that says "don't do it", my heart still speeds up as I first approach a girl. It never goes away, however your ability to ignore those feelings will improve drastically the more you do it.
I'm in town most saturdays so drop me a PM if you wanna learn some shizz.
