Hi all,

My name is Day and I'm new...

My perspective on the game is probably a little different from most of you guys. You can guess why, and at the same time try and answer my question:

How do you game a gamer, or play the player?

I'll appreciate any input

Men won't be able to tell you... just like how women can't tell men how to seduce them!

You might want to mention that you're a chick in your forum signature. Up to you, though. People here will automatically assume anyone who doesn't is a dude, though.

Hey girl, glad to have you on the forums! Hope you stick around...come join the chat for a bit there are usually some great guys and gals to chat with.

To answer your question, I am working on that now. I'm working on gaming a pua who is certified in nlp. He seems to want a FwB relationship and I am looking for dating. I have started a thread about it in the general section and plan to update it with my progress so that I can keep track of things and so others can learn from my experiences. Feel free to check it out or PM me.

Later,

B

"Day" is an actual name for a girl? That's just ridiculous.

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Again why would girls come here? Thats beyond me so far!

Well, I guess our reasons are different from yours... while its probably a lot easier for girls to attract guys quickly, its a lot harder to maintain interest/a relationship... A lot of the guys here, for example, are to a large degree playing a numbers game - how many girls can you get with, and how fast? (not to generalize, I know thats not all you're looking for). For a girl that doesn't matter, she's looking to attract the right guy and keep him interested for a longer period of time... Not just become a kiss close.

interesting. its pretty clear that there are more girls than ever trying to figure out what we do.

i think my best advice is to not "fear" a PUA.

it doesn't matter if the guy is a PUA or not. if he's a tool, you will be able to tell, regardless if he's one of us or not.

hey Day =) I'm a Swedish girl, new at this forum but I've been "gaming" for about a year now.

depending on what you want there is different ways to go... My advice is to try and see what works...

what Ive learned so far is that most of what works for guys picking up girls works for girls picking up guys.

and btw; gaming a pua.. no biggie. Met my bf through one of the swedish forums. took him about a month to ask me to be his gf, even though he knew I was going to the states for a year. even though I wasn't looking for a bf i wasn't complaining. =)

I'm happy to find that there are girls at the American forums as well =D

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