Hello everyone, im a 22 year old finnish university student living in Turku, Finland.
So, I´ve spent my teenage years frustrated and totally clueless what to when it comes to attracting women. I´ve had few girls attracted to me before, but long story short due to my total lack of confidence and ignorance I ended up scaring them away. I girl whom I´ve had crush for years has recently given me a lot of indicators of interest. I´ve always thought she wasnt attracted to me just because she would get any guy she wanted with the personality, intelligence and character she has. Why would she be interested in me? Im totally clueless. I know if I do too many things wrong she will only stay in my dreams instead of reality. So I want to remove this the idea of a "dream" girl in my mind and discover her flaws and finally get some sleep at night.
So I made my New Year´s promise to myself to improve my game/confidence. I won´t be the guy who rarely joins parties anymore. I´ve just started to get to know about the art of seduction. Have watched few videos and at the moment I´m reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss. Have approached people daily in shops/university/street after New Year. I can´t believe how easy and rewarding it is. In a less than a month people around me giving me compliments about my new found self. And that´s only in few weeks. I can see myself climbing the ladder of social hierarchy. The development is rapid when you start from the bottom.
Thanks for reading my first post, won´t turn my back on life no more.