Hello all,

I have called myself d3sign3r because that’s what I do, I am a creative designer. I am 33, I have been interested in PUA for about 5 years, occasionally dipping in and out between relationships.

Personally, I like the more natural RSD (rather than scripted MM) style. However, I do totally respect all the methods and like to pick and choose from all of them.

I never really could get over the approach anxiety problem, so I studied PUA and was a bit of a keyboard jockey, I tended to adapt what I learned for use with my social circle.

However, recently, after 5 years (on and off) of not being able to approach, about 2 months ago I finally managed to get over that hump, last night I found myself approaching around 15+ sets, some throwaways (high fives etc) mostly situational, a few scripted.

I would certainly like to be able to open better, and it will continue to be difficult for me, but I feel really excited about the possibilities now that I have finally managed to tackle this problem or at least knock it down to what seems like a more manageable size.

I may post on my own personal battle with approach anxiety in the Approaching and Opening forum.

I am older than I would like to be, and I feel this may be my last chance to really get this area of my life sorted, so I wanted to join a community to help me keep the motivation and momentum going this time.

Regards,
Designer
Oxford, Reading London

that's excatly where I am at the moment... no I lie, almost where I am. I still need to make several approaches in a night!!!! But I am working on it and getting better by the day as I practce it as often as is possiable and read up the principles as often as I can. In short I will crack this nut, even if it means bust my own to do it!!!

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