I'm 33 currently living in Houston, Tx. I never really considered myself being in the "game" but I can remember a time when picking up women came naturally. I love music and trying new things. I would like to be able to regain the ability that had one time felt like a sixth sense when it came to "reading" women. I recently have come out of a long relationship (4yrs). I've tried to immerse myself back into the dating scene and it's a lot more difficult than I remember. Being with and talking to various women used to be my element, now I feel like a fish out of water.

Hey man, i'm new too. I am 29 and also been in long terms for a long time... and i have to say i get a completely different vibe when i am out at the clubs or even talking to people younger than me around the place... the vibe i get now is a lot harsher and colder.

For one, i don't seem to be as attracted to the general crowd of young hotties about the place.. i dont know why... and for two i seem to get this strange feeling of these gen Y hotties having no "heart" compared to how it was when i flirted with them back in the day... i can get them to laugh and all that but my powers of attraction have faded severely... it would seem.

its kinda fucked up man!! I really agree i remember it being much much easier...

This site may be the answers to our problems. I've noticed the colder vibe from the women also.