I just joined and figured this would be the best place to start. My name is Hutch, I'm 25 from the UK and in the Air Force. I've recently seperated from my wife and have decided enough is enough, its time to have fun. I've been with maybe 8 women (i lose count as usually if I get lucky its when I'm drunk!) which doesn't seem too bad but the the gaps between getting laid can be painfully long. In all honestly I'm not sure how I managed to sleep with 8 (if it is women because I'm incredibly shy and self concious around people in general, not just girls, even more so in the last couple of years.

I'm here to hopefully put an end to that. I have a work college who has lent me "The Game" and i'm half way thru it now and the ideas in the book are really appealing. If I can undo a life time of bad habits I'd love to become a pua but at the minute it seems like a massive challenge.

Any help, tips or advice you guys could give would be gratefully appreciated and I'll keep you upto date with how I progress.

Oh, BTW, I'm near Oxford so if anyone local is on here feel free to give me a shout.

Cheers for now guys, Hutch.

What exactly is your problem?

it is women because I'm incredibly shy and self concious around people in general, not just girls, even more so in the last couple of years.

oops retarded me. So the ONLY way to be in the zone around people is to be talking to them. Start with this.

IT works, because i've personally done it.So no bullshit here.

Go out and talk to people. Heres a great way. You see someone in the isle at the store. "so, are those good pears?" talk to about ten people, no less. You will be pleasantly surprised at how you feel now. Try it and it will work. Do it almost every day, till it becomes sub conscious.

I know what my main problem is, when I go out socialising with friends we drink. I drink alot. I know that no woman whats to be with a piss head but i really struggle to keep my drinking in check. This is something that I'm gonna work on but its a years long habit.