Hey ya'll.. so i guess we'll start with the introduction. I am 24 years old. I do have a gf and not a virgin. I did have intimate relationship with other girls as well. I'm an average looking guy, but has some weight issues. That, has really lowered my confidence, being with groups of friends who attracts girl in random basis.

I'm not really sure how i got into the game or even knowing that i am in the game.. but the purpose is really having an easier time to talk to girls. I am sociable but all the girls (5) that i had intimate relationships, it has been a long progress. I would like to improve my "social" skills perhaps. I mean who doesn't like to be able to flirt with a girl then closing it with the girl in the bed! I also want to show that i'm not just another guy, especially when random girls are coming up to my friends, and not me.

I'm kind of familiar on how and when to do negs, but keeping a conversation going is just hard. I don't like going towards the same routine and saying what do you do for a living?.. You like to go clubbing? are you okay?... etc.. ahh!! I just want to be able to show up my friends, instead of them rubbing it in my face all the time! Sorry. had to vent as well. Hopefully the community would be able to help me..