It's been awhile since I've done this, but I'm looking forward to it. I'm 30 years old and I live in the Boston area. I've had my fair share of girls and relationships, but I have an issue with keeping them around. I'm great at meeting girls through work or through friends, but I've never really met anyone outside these two areas. I'm good at flirting with them, being "edgy", but once I know they're interested and it seems like it's heading in the relationship direction, I seem to lose that edge. They seem to notice it too because then they seem to fall off the earth. I don't know if it's because I get bored easily or if I just like the chase. I would like to figure this out and also solve my approach anxiety so I can meet someone at a bar. Girls find me attractive, but I need to be less self concious and get over old fears.

hmm i dont know about the first part or at least i g2g to class lol

but for the second part, dont limit yourself to the bar.

being 30 it might be harder to pick up younger girls in public places cuz they might label u as weird but id still broaden ur scope beond the bar.

in pickup alot of times we think of the club... but the best places to pick up girls and the easiest are not in the club or bar

espcially if u want a relationshio

the game for gewtting laid and the venue is not the same as when ur lookin for a relationship girl

imnot sayin that me being a player will never have a relationship

but ocme on, drinkin and all that u kno... its a different mindset and u approach and recieve being approached differently in a bar or club