Hey guys!

I will try to be as honest as possible and will try to keep it short.

I am in my early thirties, and I became aware of the community after reading the game about a year and half ago. And my main objective in joining the community was (and still is) twofolds:

-first, in the period of the coming two to four years, I want to expand my sexual experience by having MLTR with attracive and interesting women
-then get a wife or permanent gf and start a family, have kids,...

I am reasonably good lookng, fashionable, social guy, with a very good sense of humor. So I have no problem in meeting women through my social circle, but I end up being their friend cause I dont know how to take it to the next step (and another major reason is give below). Actually, some of my not so close friends think that I am a player as they see me with girls all the time. But in reality, I have been physicall involved with very few girls, and in the last 5 years or so, maybe getting laid about 4 times a year on the average (with a couple of years of complete dryness in between:-().

So for the past year and half, I have read a lot, watched countless videos, and also have practicsed a lot by my own. so I have done things that I have never imagined doing before, like stopping girls on the street and # closing them, kissing a girl on the dance floor a minute after meeting her, and stuff like that. but when it comes to F closing, even though there has been few cases of ONSs here and there, I still struggle. And the few ONSs that has happenned, the sex is usually terrible as
I sevearly lack sexual confidence.

I think this has to do mainly with my inexperience, and I have had some "random" episodes of impotence in my life (nothing physical, I have been checked, just anxiety related). Now I still get this anxiety that "what if it happens with this girl", and it is a kinda self fulfilling prophecy. It has happend twice this year, once during the summer (with a girl I met through my social circle) and the other one a couple of weeks ago ( a girl i picked up in a bar)

so whenever I get into a situation where I can escalate it to a sexual level, specially with the girls that I meet in my social circle, I chicken out fearing that i might not be getting it up again. And with the girls that I meet randomly, when the moment of truth arrives, I end up trying too hard to satisfy them, too much foreplay etc and it usually ends in disaster.

so that is where i am at in my game, and I have decided that i am going to get this part of my life on track, as I am a successfull and a happy person in almost all other aspects of my life. So I hope I will be able to get some tips from you guys, or maybe even find guys who have had similar issues and have taken care of it, and I am optimistic that I can get out of this vicious circle that I find myself trapped in and be a more self confident, sexually competent person.

peasure meeting you guys!
LadyAholic