Hey guys!!! I'm new to the community and I have read the Mystery Method and working on reading The Game by Neil Strauss.

Anyway...I just went out "sarging" for the first time tonight with my newly found skills. Let me just say WOW. I was really skeptical at first about all this stuff but now I am a believer!!!

To the the juicy stuff: College Party, at my friends girlfriends place. Place was popping with HB 6-10. Anyway I ended up being the life of the party and everyone wanted to hang out with me. I was hitting on HBs but every,single, one, of them had a Boyfriend...WTF?? Anyway I didn't have any "boyfriend destroyers". So it was extremely hard for me to seal the deal with them. I ended taking this HB 6.5 back to my apartment (yea I know not the greatest but her boobs look good and i was drunk). I made out with her, got her number and I'm going to her party tomorrow (Either Im going to try and fuck her or use her for a pawn...probably fuck her...cus i haven't got laid in 2 years!!).

Anyway...I have questions...

What do i do if a girl mentions she has a boyfriend?!

I was kinda jumping around from set to set hitting on a lot of girls. Is that OK or am I being to aggressive??

When I took this girl back to my place...i was kinda nervous because I hadn't planned on fucking this girl tonight...so whats the proper procedures to get her from the couch to the bed?


and....THANKS!! seriously I can't believe how well the game actually works, its amazing...My confidence has sky rocketed and I feel like i just turned over a new leaf in my life...man I can't wait for the ride. You guys are the best!!!

A bit of a noob myself but i think the general consensus is that you ignore it or reply with a simple "oh cool!" and then carry on. If you dont get the IOI's, move on.
I usually stop, stand up, take her hand and say "lets go somewhere more comfortable" then lead her fairly quickly to the bedroom so she doesn't have too much time to think things over. If anyone has a better tip then i'm interested too!!

When a girl says that there are different possibilities, heres few of them:

1.She says it to not feel so quilty about cheating on her boyfriend with you.
2.Its just a result of bitch-shield, which is trying to blow you off.
3.She wants to make herself look better in your eyes.

Anyways, just respond with something funny I'd say:

"Oh thats cool, I have a boyfriend too !"
"I'm pregnant. "
"I have had a wife for three years now and three kids. Its a hell !"
Just don't make it look like you get blown out of every set and its fine.
Show her something from your bedroom while you both are sitting on your bed, then makeout and just do like this song says...I'M FREEE FAAALLLIIINNNGGG!.... NOW I'M FREEEE!....I'M FREEE FAALLLIIING!

First time for months that I'm giving off proper explained advice here... Maybe I have too much free time in my hands .

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Lol thanks for the tips guys...ill be sure to try them out today or whenever I get to that situation again. But yea I was super disappointed in myself because when she said boyfriend...I was like fuckkkk. If I would have known what to do i probably could have hooked up with her. (I asked her about her BF and she said they only saw each other on football weekends, so i knew it wasn't that serious). Damn I could have hooked up with a HB 9 =((((. O well!!)

yeah alot of people will simply cut that thread and then go into a new thread/gambit to just totally bypass that entire subject. it works pretty well.

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Classic Bf destroyers
basically belittle her bf, in a VERY VERY subtle way... just reduce his value in her eyes but don't let her know you're doing it.

i.e. be playful about it.

Dempsey's right. You can't DIRECTLY belittle her BF because she will become defensive and protect him. You have to go about it indirectly. Things like "Oh, he can cook us breakfast then." or if they're a different ethnic couple "Oh, that's awesome! I won't even understand him when we argue the morning after."

Indirect is the way to go. However, some girls Direct BF Abuse will work, however you should know by that sign that she's not really dating material anyway, more like an SNL.

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im new but i'd say being new, and gaining a K-close seems like a Confidence builder.
g/j

the "i have a bf line..." refer to what was said from ali G, "respect" in styles context, its a bs line and can be a win/lose whatever moment

As long as the boyfriend is not there, you have the least to worry.

Hell, I've K-closed a girl in front of HER boyfriend. At the point I had her following me around and hanging around laughing with me, I isolated her (her boyfriend followed us and patrolled behind us thinking that I didn't know about it, kind of sad).

We flirted and she was saying all the time that she can't kiss me because of her boyfriend. Our faces were really close for the whole time and she was literally peking me while speaking. Then at some point I just leaned in a bit and we kissed.

Her boyfriend rushes from behind and I just eject at this point, and she yells at me "You can't do this to me!", which I just yelled back "Noooooooot!" while walking away.

Now don't throw any moral shit at me, I'm the devil and everything has to be tried once. No use of BF-destroyers here at all.

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I like your style Stetson, I had a similar instance about a month ago. I had been drinking and dancing with this girl for most of the night, in between I would go around and talk to other HBs I already knew to boost my social proof. It worked because she was trying to follow me like a puppy on a leash. So when I finally decide to acknowledge her again we started dancing which lead to me taking her over to a table nearby and making out with her... little did I know she had a bf, and he happened to be sitting at the table. lol Later in the night her friends pulled me aside and told me about it. And she has been calling me on and off since then lol

Ask how long she has had the bf for, if not long then go ahead, if it is serious then excuse yourself politely

Witz out....

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Just ignore it, as if u didn't hear it.

'It's ok, I ain't a jealous boy...'
This enables you to go on 10 stars if it was a shit test from her, and continue with the gaming/flirting

From that point it's up to you to analyze whether she has or not a boyfriends, she is or not loyal, oyu want to use a BF destroyer, etc.. The response is just to dodge her 'stop'.
You don't want to look like a man whore. As simple as that. We all like to get as many women as we can, but there's no need for all of them to be at the same place the same night.
couldn't tell. So far (and hopefully as log as I'm learning and using the game) I won't try any F-close.

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