Hey...

How is it going. This is Adil, and I live in Los Angeles, CA. I came here to share what I know and learn. I came from Saudi Arabia, where things are much different: put the number in her bag in leave and wait for the call. Meet in secrecy.

Me? I am shy at first, unless I was introduced or had the chance to talk, I would not go for it. weird.

I have learned alot and got results, but I have an AA problem. I use my friends to my friend open a set. His does not have anxiety as much as I do, but HE does not know how to keep the conversation going.

few months ago I was with my ex-girlfriend's brother in a bar. He opened a girl and I quickly stole the conversation afterwards, asking her about first impression of a middle eastern brown guy with a pony tale was (which is me). She contemplated and said I don't know, I said come on, and then she said okay let me tell you. I said no no no no no, you had to think, hence it is not the first impression... she then said OK THEN WHAT IS YOUR FIRST IMPRESSION ABOUT ME. I looked at her and said: you are either married and looking for fun, or you are single and sick of people trying to pick u up so u put the ring in your left hand....

So I believe that I am very good in conversation

Now, I need to get rid of my own approach anxiety. I always have this stupid fear (that I know won't go away). I am here to read and understand what I should do, and apparently, it only needs me to just TALK and be myself. I remember the What-is-your-name-what-is-your-number approach made alot of girls laugh when I tested it in day game. But the problem is I do not approach until I get an approach invitation, which I don't get all the time.

It's all fun!

I made a pledge to go out at least 4 times a week and try something. When I use something that does not work, I then find out a way not to do it. So keep it positive.

Just play one of the games I learnt in the game! Ring an random number and ask for cinema recommendations. Also, go out, and buy NLP for dummies, read how to make people like you in 90 seconds or less, and wake up every morning, and write something great about yourself. Sounds childish, and a typical tip, but it does actually help. Write yourself an mantra. I use Apple's "Think Different" as an motivator for success, and have this as a note on my phone's welcome screen.

And welcome to the community

8Bit