hi everyone,

very cool place to hang out .. as alot of I have my own issue and just have no idea what to make of it. I have been seeing someone for around 2 months, this person is extremely shy when it comes to kissing, things like that and this is very normal., although we have kissed a few times.. we had to actually stop because of her request, going to fast I guess. We have a huge amount in common, and get along great. The one hook up is a previous person she had claims to loved she never even kissed. this other guy lives far away and she hardly mentions him.

yesterday we where together as normal and I wasn't talking much because of the way she wont' become full time g/f, just likes to remain "seeing" each other..I felt like being a bit more distant today for whatever reason.. she could sense this very quickly? Honestly I don't think I could tell if someone did that to me. . what was odd though was when I was not talking much today because I get upset sometimes at the whole thing, she asked me "is everything ok?"...I said everything was fine. Although this question made me think did she just wants to make sure my personal life was ok, or that if "we where ok". Then as I go to hug her as normal she had her face perfectly at me , exactly how someone would want a kiss, in fact her eyes where even closed. I didn't kiss her but kind of looked funny because it was very clear she was wanting me to kiss her, but then she waits 4-5 seconds and opens her eyes and says, you where trying to kiss me! of coarse it was odd and I just laughed and said, no I wasn't .. she then called me a liar in a joking way, and said cya later (not upset). I honestly was not going to kiss her, but the whole thing was odd with her sticking her face perfect at me, normally it would never be like that hugging her.

Why is she doing this? is it normal for younger girls (19) to play this type of game? should I confront her , that I think she was testing me.. trying to kiss me, and why must I look like the fool?

any thoughts on how I should best handle this scenario, objective is making her my g/f because I truly like her for who she is.