Hey, what's up guys! I'm fairly new to the game. I've read Neil Strauss' books, The Game, The Style Diaries, and have been introduced to the world of PUAs. I started the 30 days challenge and am on Day 3, but haven't started with it yet. I am very interested in learning more about The Game and look forward to our discussions. I'm still 22 and haven't gotten laid yet. The reason is because I don't want to just go out and get with some random girl with the sole purpose of having sex with her. I believe what I'm really looking for is a woman who I truly feel strong about. But, in order to do that I need to learn The Game to get over some of my shyness and start to go out dating more. I'm looking to learn all I can from everyone who is willing to dish out advice. Thanks guys, it's good to be here.

I really emphathize with you on the dont want to go out and bang some random girl note. Im a few years younger but I have the same kind of problem. I think the hardest thing is that PUA literature only focuses a quick fuck rather than a "take it slow" relationship. The only progression of the typicaly out lined relationship is either sex the night you meet them and then a relationship, or sex the day after you meet her. Another problem is its hard to figure out who the kind of women who want to take it slow and build a relationship just by looking at them.

Thanks for the reply tack. I understand where you're coming from. But, I don't think that the PUA community is focused only around having sex with a girl and then forming a relationship. I think that's why I'm so attracted to the PUA community, because you can take it a few ways. It's kind of got the whole Light Side/Dark Side thing going on. Some guys only use to to go out and screw a different girl every night, while others use it to truly improve their social skills and help them get better at approaching and talking to women in general, so the one's that are worth something and good-looking don't pass up the "TRULY" nice guy just because he didn't know how to talk to or approach her.

Hey you're not chocolate thunder!
C.T. is the head of speed seduction in europe and an instructor for alpha interactions.
They must have deleted that account or its spelt different.

Anyway welcome C.T

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