Hey...

Im new to the community, though I've been lurking in the shadows for some time just reading books, watching videos, etc.

I'm not a natural, but I'm not terrible either. Ive actually had a great amount of success when I lived overseas (most of my adult life). I'm living in the states again, a little intimidated by women here. Not sure what to expect. The game seems tougher here.

I can usually hold a conversation, but I think my problem is building enough interest to not get stuck in friends zone. I consider myself an intellectual, which is why I think I have a hard time jumping into "game mode", and knowing that I need to go back to playground material to get some of the hottest girls out there.

I know this stuff works, Ive been putting peacocking and negging to the test, so now I'm a believer. I just want to be able to basically have choices, and build a social life of fun, yet intellectually stimulating women.

Looking forward to jumping in deep. Im an affiliate marketer, so pretty much Ive got lots of freetime (no set schedule) to practice, go out, etc. I want to get this stuff ingrained quick and get to the fun.

any help getting started is appreciated.

Hi and welcome!

First off, go over the basics of one book, say the mystery method, and learn the fundamentals of the pickup from approach, building attraction and comfort throguh to the seduction.

You say you can hold a conversation well but are going straight into the friends zone. Assuming you've DHV'd I'd say you're not flirting enough. Using push/pull, like negging and then rewarding with small praise after she proves her value is important, and touch is something people don't use enough.

A field report would be great to help out more, have fun!

thanks for the tips. ive been reading for some time, its just that i havent gone out into the field enough to put it all together.

im going out tonight though, and definitely gonna use more negging, kino. ive seen it work when i do use it, just i usually forget about "game" while in set.

Great, have fun tonight, make that the most important thing and you'll be good to go

well, happy to report success. nothing more than lots of confidence and not giving a fuck what anyone thought. this is probably my sticking point...but im coming out of it. here's my field report:

im-a-believer--vt27024.html