hey every1. I wasn't always a shy guy. It started just about the time I started highschool. through highschool, I had no game at all and got very little attention from girls. I was beta to the extreme and didn't grasp what girls were thinking at all. I was crazy enough to think that they would see what a nice guy i was and gravitate to me...haha. I've lived in a very small town my whole life and that means minimal options for girls. i just finished my first year of university and it was an overload of social interaction that i'm not used to. looking back i realize that i could have hooked up sooo many times but i just couldn't spot the ioi's... anyway this summer i bought the game and i've been interested in this pua stuff ever since. ive put some of it to practical use and have been getting possitive results. still no lay yet but i think im going to start trying harder. well..trying harder at not trying harder...i hope u get wut i mean. my birthday's in a month and it would be sweet if i could get this virginity thing off my mind before then so i can move on and start picking up more. comments appreciated!

I think you shouldn't make it such a big thing! Its all about the right moment, and i think that the game in general gives people a possibility to create more 'right moments.' Don't pressure yourself too much, just keep up your game, learn the techniques, practice lots and you'll have a girl in the sack before you know it!

Gotta agree with switch here man. Dont put too much pressure on yourself, it'll just work against ya. Be confident and throw that nice guy bullshit out the fuckin window! Remember you don't need THAT girl to get laid. So...dont treat her like a goddess and dont give her everything she wants! Plenty o' fish in the sea brother.

Welcome

Oh, and btw, an 18 year old virgin isnt a rarity. QUIT TRIPPIN' ON IT!

don't think about '1 month to go'

that's not the way to go. if you get all desperate then you will be afraid to take chances.

you have to be able to just go for the kiss or whatever, whithout worrying about messing things up with a girl. If you're thinking just one month to go then you will be afraid to do that.

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Show the world your Soul.

thanx for the advice guys, I really appreciate it!

I hope my story makes you feel better. I was virgin at 21!!! And it took me another 4 years to find out about game.

Let it happen when it happens, just trust that it WILL happen!

thanx gambler. Its too bad that it reeks havoc on my inner game. I'm a pretty good guy all around but when it comes to game im seriously lacking. at least after reading the game and checking out some posts online, I finally understand alot of the mechanics that I've always missed. I find a lack of experience in this department is really getting in the way of alot of things in my life. my buddies say that after I lay my first girl, I'll be unstoppable. hope they're right..

Good luck in your adventure.

Make sure you get your priorities right and that getting laid isn't the ultimate goal. Improving yourself should be the main target with that being one of the things you can measure it by.

Once you get over the whole sex thing it might not happen straight away but you realise it's not as massive a deal as you have it thought out to be, but still a damn good thing.

Keep us up to date on your progress!

It really doesn't matter dude, its just a stupid title.

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I just wanna fuck bad bitches, for all the nights I never had bitches.

This title seems to kinda overwhelm you though I understand your point it's just a little more difficult than not thinking about it.

Hey I didn't lose my V-card until I was 22!!! At the time it seemed like a big deal, but in retrospect it really wasn't. Even after that, until I picked up the game when I was 24 (8 months ago) I only had one partner. Since then things have improved, well, by 500%, so you've come to the right place.

Welcome bro. Now that you're coming better armed this time you should have no problem at all with college and stuff starting up this time of year.

lol i was in this situation. I wanted to rid myself of the big V before i was 18. I didn't manage it but shortly after i lost it.

It was right and all that

You should feel great that you got and later noticed the ioi's you got before! What it says is that you were not undesirable even as a clueless teenager. Look at it this way girls were attracted to you when you had ZERO game.

Your in the right place to learn man! Get reading, get practicing, and do that now! Good luck!