Alright, I admit, I am the one who "stumbled", quite honestly by accident, upon this site through my ex's profile.

Though I have been completely validated in my initial assumptions regarding sites like this by some of the "threads" I've read, I would really like nothing more than to be convinced otherwise.

I can give advice on what a real women wants in a man, and welcome all of your questions, in exchange I would like only to be treated with equal respect and confirmation that "you're not all bad" as I've been told lately.

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"And this too shall pass"

oh god another one

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Its pronounced Jay-Zin

"It's gonna be like Cabo in my PANTS!"

Contemporary Chronicler:
http://thecontemporarychronicler.blog.com/

Best of Jaxin:
best-of-jaxin-vt1824.html

And I'm sure you only mean that in the best way possible!

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"And this too shall pass"

I am sure he did. You are the 3rd of 4th woman to join in the past 48 hours. Kinda rare.

There are several good guys, you responded to Hobbit's post. That about explains it all.

Welcome.

CK

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success is my only mother fucking option, failure is not.

Thanks Chino, good to know.

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"And this too shall pass"

Welcome

Hopefully you find the forums useful and the forums also find you useful

Thank you, I certainly hope so too!

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"And this too shall pass"

Welcome to the forum! You'll find that everyone here is really open to advice. Make sure you check out what other people say too because quite a bit of people, especially the moderators, give some good advice.

I am a girl too so I know first hand that these guys have appreciated the female perspective on this forum, but as a word of caution, don't speak for ALL women because as you know, we are all different. Zip, Paramour, and friendofafriend are some of the other girls on here.

And geeeze there have been several girls on this forum lately (me included)...I swear there is no ad out....I guess the book is just getting more popular! haha

I agree completely, we don't know what we want...otherwise we wouldn't choose half of the men that we do.

So, yes...I will continue to look into PUA and familiarize myself so that I am more aware.

Perhaps I'll find myself a 3rd Gen PUA!

Thanks again Hobbit!

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"And this too shall pass"

Thanks...I'm actually starting to notice that!

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"And this too shall pass"

I'll skip the standard message, this time.

We spoke in chat. Welcome. Let me know if I can help you out. Make sure you learn as well as give opinions, bla bla bla, all that usual crap I tell the ladies.

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- Zip

There's lots of them and yeah I do mean it in a good way (ish), I remember the good old days when Tickler thought she was the only girl here and that created such a ruckus now no one even cares that there's a girl here, no one tries to game her, no one even notices, what I don't like is for some reason a lot of the guys (newbies mostly) make the girls here out to be higher status than the guys here (not cool guys not cool)

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Its pronounced Jay-Zin

"It's gonna be like Cabo in my PANTS!"

Contemporary Chronicler:
http://thecontemporarychronicler.blog.com/

Best of Jaxin:
best-of-jaxin-vt1824.html

Sweetie, the last time Tickler was here was "Sat Aug 18, 2007 6:06 am"

Remember when someone posted a picture of a model from the JCrew Mag and she said she was on it...

Remember when she spelled "because" "cos"

I do.

Some things are better left in the past.

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- Zip

I'm not quite sure what you mean by this, since you're not stating what your "initial assumptions" were... but this forum is about guys trying to become more attractive to women. If you don't like that idea, you're at the wrong place.