im a fairly new amateur pua (4 months since i've learned of the community). i've been doing my research and dabbling in the field. decided this past friday, it was time to put my learnings into full effect. i set a goal of 1 number close a day. (i'd be satisfied with 1 a week). it's been 6 days and i've got 7 numbers. the only problem is that i don't know how to juggle all this all of a sudden... yet. but im quickly learning. it's kinda like winning a slot machine and the money dosn't stop coming out, and you don't know where to put it all... you find places fast... big bills here, medium bills here, small bills over there. only they're not bills, they's better. thanks, i'll try to give back.

What approach are you taking?

I always take a girls surname. I aim take a photo as well (camera phone).

If they resist tell them you'll have to call them red-shoes-girl/pink-hairband-girl/ect.

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it's that when i ask they're name, by the time they respond, im already calculating so much in my brain, that i don't even hear what they say half the time. i'm not nervous, im just not used to it. but im getting better. the last 4 # closes i remembered it every time.

i usually make a sarcastic funny comment about the bartender while standing an earshot away. im pretty funny with solid humor so that's usually enough to get a chuckle. we make eye contact and i quickly notice an accessory (shoes, purse, earings, whatever). " those shoes are awseome, i'm Murry (as i extend my hand with the friendliest of faces), what's your name?". then we talk for a few minutes, i leave to go back to talk with other people i know only to return shortly as an old friend. so far so good

I am terrible with names as well , so I always give them some kind of weird nickname that is easy to remember, which is good for getting a laugh out of them and is also good when you phone or text them back as It makes It more personal. Goodluck!

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