Hey guys,
A buddy of mine recommended I read 'the game', so I picked it the other day and have read almost half of it so far. I have to say that there are a lot of parallels between me and 'the old' Neil Strauss. Its like reading a brief outline of my own past and seeing what my future is going to be like, which is pretty cool and encouraging.

Little bit about myself:
20 year old guy who's been in chastity for the last couple years; voluntary (religious gf i tried for a while...) and involuntarily. I would say I'm an attractive guy (though only 5'7) and usually only get anywhere with women by my looks cause they comment and initiate conversation. Even though I get AA I usually fight it and at least open with girls...this is where the problem usually starts. This usually carries on after the girls become closer and thats when the tell me i'm attractive till I open my mouth

Recently I went to a friends party (girl) and I started to make out with her on the dance floor...thats when her bf called her lol. anyway turned out we worked in the same building and started planning a threesome with another friend of hers (both are about an 7.5 or . I fought all the anxiety of having a threesome, but it turns out that our timing sucks and everything just wasn't working so now i'm and extremely frustrated AFC haha. So i'm leaving for europe in a week and we have to post pone any plans of getting together with them. But now i have to figure out another way to be confident enough in europe to get the european girls. After checking out a few forums, I think the best way to gain some confidence would just be to talk to as many strangers as possible in the next week and get over some of my AA. If anyone has any other ideas of what I can work at, it'd be much appreciated.

Thanks guys!

Every girl in Europe wants you to approach them. And if you find one that doesn't, the next one will want you to approach her twice as much.

It's actually a good place to knock down some of the AA wall - these are people that live how far away from you? And if you don't create a good impression you'll run into them how many times ever? Nothing to lose, everything to gain.

I read a quote somewhere (I think credit Mystery) and to paraphrase: There are 3 billion girls in the world - if you could take the chance that 250 of them will hate your guts for the opportunity to have any woman you want, isn't that worthwhile?

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Very true words! thanks Infamous.

I say the same things to myself...Its the damn wall! lol just gotta become more comfortable breaking it. And that requires lots and lots of practice, something that I do very little of.

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