I am ne to the forum and new to the society, but after visiting other forums and reading about PUAs i have come to undersand that womanlike to be negged, but my problem is that i tend to take it a little too far and lose the interest that the girl had typically making them think i am a d-bag. Are there tell-tale signs that woman give off or is there some other way that i should know to shut off the neg? Thanks.

-Knob

It all depends on the flow of the conversation. The more beautiful the woman, the more you should neg her.

Beautiful women are completely bored with random guys hitting on them.

Don't forget that the purpose of a neg is to disqualify yourself as a guy who's hitting on her. It is used only to divert her attention. It's up to you to demonstrate value to her. It's also important that you do not hang around too long and over-do the negs.

Your value and status is everything. Make sure that she's attracted to you before you hit on her. You must get her attention and keep it, then pull back a little and make her work for your attention.

Also make sure that the connection you have seems to come naturally, from her own words, and not so much from what you said. Be impressed with opinions she may give.

this helps alot thanks man

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-Knob

Most guys insult rather than neg. Its probably good to neg only a few times in the first meeting. Also, body language plays a huge role and its something that guys tend to overlook. If its done in a very serious tone of voice its almost always gonna be taken as an insult.

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"To Give anything less than your best is to sacrifice the gift" -Prefontaine

Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

i hope i'm not repeating anything,
but as Perpetual said, the prettier the girl,the more negs you should give,
but also 6-7 that consider themselves as 10 should be neg.

i don't really count how many negs i give, what i'm doing right now is focusing on the step, first step is to start talking to the girl, after i start talking to her i start negging her and when i get 3-4 IOI i move to the next step - stop negging her and showing interest in her...

but you can see that she's getting angry after to many or to offensive negs

hope i helped and tell me if i have any misstakes, english is my second language

I personaly consider there to be two types of NEG.

First there is the playful neg. (C&F)

" You don't drink beer? Ha! Wuss!"

Second is the backhanded neg. (Serious, but seems unintentinal.)

" You don't drink beer? Cool. I can't IMAGINE you drunk"

First neg was direct and meant in good humor. Secons NEG was a serious but indirect, negative implication.

It's all about delivery and neither are meant to be insulting. Neg her like you'd NEG your best friend.

Edit: Actually maybe not like your best friend. Things can get pretty brutal even though your friends.

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CB

- "Only those who are unworthy, ...get lucky". -CB

- "The larger an ego becomes, the more vunerable it is. Like a ballon while inflating gains more and more surface area for a pin to invade." - CB