Hello all another newbie. I'm currently reading through a few of the books that will help me learn the art of PUA. A little background on myself. I'm currently 27...a chubby kid who shed the weight somewhere in high school though I feel some low self esteem still haunts me along with some shyness though not nearly as bad as when I was younger. I was with a girl from age 18 to about 25 and then I chose to explore the single world. All the women I've been with have approached me except for one I dated shorty after I became single. I was always the "nice shy" guy you know the type, though somehow I have dated some beautiful women.

A year and half crush on a girl led me to the local barnes and noble to seek knowledge on attracting and wooing women where I found the game and other similar books which led me too Google and then this board. I'm a AFC! I never ever approach strange women except sometimes when I have liquid courage which can't be good. Hi everyone I hope to learn alot

i can definitely relate, always used to be the shy, nice, intelligent guy who preferred to listen to other people dominate during social gatherings

i didnt believe i had the natural ability to lead and dominant, but EVERYONE does have it

it took me a long time to figure that out, but once you do its pretty much magic. It sounds like your doing a lot of positive things in terms of getting into shape and building up your inner game which is awesome