Hey guys

Great forum by the way,

The reason i am here is because i am fed up. I am a young (22) decent looking dude. I am no brad Pitt and i may be a bit on the short side but i am by no means ugly. Back in school, I used to have this effortless sort of cockyness and ease around girls. Due to this there were alot of good looking girls interested in me. Over the years I have lost this cockyness slowly, to the point where i now talk to girls in the same lame ass boring way that every other guy does, trying to impress. I recently broke up with a girl after 2 years, and now that i go out more i usually find myself staring at girls, wishing i had the balls to march up and talk to them.

The funny thing is, when i am in the right mindset i can still bring it back. Every now and then i go out and i am in a gaming mood again and there are times when i can entertain groups of 4 chicks and have them all eating out of the palm of my mind, but other nights i will doubt myself, lack confidence and pretty much do nothing when i am out.

The reason i am here is because i have nothing left to lose and you only live once. I am sick of being a lame ass standing in a club corner sipping on a beer and tired to lacking confidence for no apparent reason. I have a sick sense of humour and can make anyone laugh. I am also the singer/guitarist in a pub band (not being arrogent but we are one of the best in our area too). With all this i should be swarming in women, but as pathetic as it is i still will rarely approach a chick even at a gig for fear of rejection.

It stops now boys. I need some tips, where do i start?

At the moment i am halfway through the game, and have got mystery method waiting to read is there anything else. I want to merge some of these theories and use some of my own ( I can actually be quite good when talking to chicks, i just need to grow some balls and stop worrying about stuff)..

Thanks guys