Lurked for a little bit before finally making post. I'm currently in Gainesville FL and am looking to learn some things about pick up. From what i've read and learned thus far I seem to be OK at building comfort and rapport, creating a connection, and building attraction. I'd say i come across a playful and confident, and have a pretty good sense of humor and am pretty witty.

However I seem to struggle physically escalating and sealing the deal, and at times i experience some LMR. On another note most of the girls i have been gaming are usually friends of friends. So basically i really don't open or approach much, its not so much the AA as its more that I over think the approach and basically just don't know what to say. Ive tried some canned openers but they just don't come out right when i use them.

All in all im looking to work out the kinks and get better at approaching and closing. This looks like a great forum and i hope to learn a lot and eventually contribute a lot.

I know this may sound stupid, but if you practice some of those openers to the mirror a couple dozen times, it makes your delivery sound less rushed and more natural. I don't know if it will hep you, but it works for me. Give it a try and let me know how it works.

Happy Sarging,

Bacardi