Hi Guys, I am new to this forum and my PUA name is Lone Wolf as you can see. It has no meaning; it was just the first thing that came in to my head that sounded cool and interesting. Since everyone has a reason for wanting to master the GAME and became a PUA, and I am no exception, I guess I’ll share my.

Just recently about 2 months ago I got my heart broken, the situation was complicated but that did not matter since the girl was clearly incapable or rational thought. The story started about 2 years ago when I went to Croatia (I am Croatian by the way living in Canada) for a 3 month summer vacation. I was not expecting anything, I just wanted to go there and have a good time. Little did I know that things would change? I meet a girl that was just out of this world. Really attractive, smart, funny and best of all we had so much in common. The only problem for me was that she had a BF who she was in a relationship with for about 3 year. At first I was hesitant to try anything; but, the more time I spent with her the more I was aware of what I wanted. I took a chance, tried and succeeded enough where we fooled around, I feel in love with her and she fell in love with me. Sadly, I needed to come back to Canada to finish my last year of university. We remained in touch at times talking every day up until I went there last year for another vacation. When we meet up again I was working from square one since all the feelings that she had for me were forgotten. Funny enough as its going to sound the first time I was hoping to make my move was on my birthday since it was a perfect excuse for everything. But, before I could do anything she told me that no way in hell will she allow anything ever go down between us since she loves her BF and she cares about him (bla bla bla just lots of BS). I was a bit devastated at the time; I didn't know what to do. So for the next week or so I just ignored her for the most part going out with other friend meeting girls etc…and then out of nowhere I don't even remember how it happened things just clicked between us and things started happening and everything started getting better and better. This time around when I came back to Canada it was a long distance relationship, again getting better and better by each passing day. For the time being it was going to be a long distance relationship until she graduated from her university and then we would see what would happen. In all our daily talking I could see that she was more in to me then the BF (by the way she was still holding on to him and I don’t know why). At times she would do anything to prevent him from coming over her house or talking to her on SPAM just so that we can talk. Ironically there I am thinking all is well for me and I got nothing to worry as she will eventually dump the BF after her graduation at the latest as she was planning on coming to my house for the entire summer, she got the visa and a plane ticket to come here, everything was ready to go or it seemed. Things looked good and could not be any better until the BF confronted her first about everything; at that time she didn’t tell him anything rather she distanced herself from me a little not knowing what to do, but, the relationship was still OK between us. After that, out of nowhere one night the ass of the BF that he is confronts me on SPAM. Just because I was in a bad mood and he was trying to interrogate me for two hours I snapped and told him shit happened deal with it. From this point on due to the distance and because I could not talk to her face to face, everything changed. He forgave her (what a pussy) for everything and told her he want her still, and she told me it’s over between us (she felt bad for the guy and based her decision on her guilt trip rather than reason). After this she tells me that I had intent to tell him and I did it on purpose to separate them. I was more surprised than anything of how can someone so smart and at the same time be so stupid to accuse me of something like that and to make such a decision. Even the fact that she told me before that she never ever ever wants a pussy ass BF who love her enough to willingly forgive her for everything she does to him does not seem to matter anymore. You see here she’s eating shit that she said she was never gonna touch. After this whole ordeal I really didn’t talked to her because according to her I am a liar because when I say I didn’t tell the BF intentionally that makes me one. Although I still feel something for her and care about her I know what I am worth, and I know that I am better then that pussy BF and that she made the biggest mistake by going to him and I especially know that I don’t deserve this shit and the pain that she has caused me. To sum it up, this was the first time I actually was attracted to someone who I really cared about and I am 23/24. Don't get me wrong this is not the first person that was interested in me…there are girls that are interested but unfortunately they are not to my likening. I've been even hit on by gay guys (funny stories). I am not as badly off as some of other here in attracting people but my only problem is attracting girls that I like and I want that to change. So what I am trying to say is that I am hoping and wanting to become a good PUA in order to meet someone I can truly like and not to waste time waiting and hoping someone will come along.

Now that you know my story and reasons for wanting to be a good PUA a better question is where is the best place to start with everything(I mean learning)?