Hi all,

Just wanted to introduce myself to you all as I hope to learn more about meeting and dating more women.

I am pretty new to this whole PUA thing - had some exposure when my SPAM read the game, and saw a documentary on TV some time ago.

Never had any real problems getting a GF, but I only seem to be able to talk to girls when either I know them already via work or friends, which are then become the ones I date or go out with when appropriate.

What I cannot do, and struggle with is approach women cold in bars or clubs, and I only get chatting if I myself get approached by them, therefore, I am the one he is chosen, not vice versa.

This is what I would like to change, as now I am single again, I want to open up my options and be the one that does the "choosing" so to speak.

I am fairly confident in social situations in general, but that fails me when beautiful women are concerened.

I have starting reading different material as suggestd by various MPUA'a and no have joined the forum in hope to learn form you guys and perhaps even make new friends.

I live in London, so there is no shortage of places to go and practise.

Lastly, I find London the hardest place to pull, I have lived in the US, Spain and Ireland, and always seem to find it easier to meet women than I do in London. I have not yet sussed out why this is, is it that the women are more protected here, or am I acting differently in my home town?

Anyway, that's my introduction, and I hope to speak with you all again soon. For now, I am going to browse through the threada, and see what I can find.

Best.

NJay

I also new welcome to this board. I agree london is very harsh and it kind of drive me nuts when you are at a stage where you get numbers then the girl plays with your mind.

Sometimes I think they only care about parties, getting drink especially the hot ones they know they can play with mens minds i hate women like this. Good luck man its a tough journey.

Kev