Hey there, just joined several minutes ago and I have some stuff to get off my chest when it comes to women and this sort of thing, so heres some background. Im 18 and currently living in the UK (england). I go out alot of the time, some weekdays and every weekend, my success rate with women, my age or below or above is absolutely piss poor. I have only managed to get with 1 girl in the last month and about 8 over the last year, absolutely awful I know. Im a confident guy but I have no self confidence, I pretty much hate my body look alot of the time, and I don't motivate myself enough to go out and work out to change it.
I hang out with a really really really mixed group of guys. 3 of my mates are conisuerss (or however its spelt) of very good looking girls. One of my mates who turned 19 yesterday has slept with about 30 women which I consider pretty good going because all bar one of them has been pretty stunning. However, these guys are good looking guys, with a hell of a lot of confidence, very intelligent aswell. Some of my other mates are absolutely awful with women, and reached the hight of their results years ago, as a result they can be spiteful about it and always put themselves down. I have tried alot with women. I have tried to be cocky funny, and it vaguely works but they never show interest, I have tried to take the everyday joe approach, and chat to them about random shit and compliment them, but I have decided, fuck that. I guess my question is, after being around good looking guys who get alot of ass and play it off like its nothing, who barely even communicate with women and still have to bat them off because their so popular with them, what the fuck am I supposed to do? Do I accept that because im not as good looking as them I should just throw in the towel? I think its all to do with looks, theres no doubts about it for me, everywhere I look the good looking guys get the girls, maybe its different overseas, but in the UK when people go to social gatherings and clubs and things, its always the good looking guy who gets laid, and nothing for the other.

Well you got it all wrong anyone can attract hot beautiful women your friends can be natural players and some of the rest can become experienced I know people who just love getting rejected one by one with every girl he sees he dont give a damn but at the end he always ends up with a beautful girl. If you need help with anything just keep posting and ill answer some of your questions!