hi im new to this site, and pua. ive got the dreaded oneitus and need some advice on what to do.

I met this girl on facebook and got on well, i invited her out she was very interested.

so on wednesday i met up with her. im usually a shy person but we talked a lot and had very good eyecontact. she wanted to kiss me and she said she meet up with me again. I text her later and she was still interesed.

The next day text her about meeting up and got no text back. I was drinking that day and i later sent her a message accusing her of leading me on.
After that i apoligised and turned in to a bit of a wuss, she told me shes not looking for anything. i said lets be freinds but now she doesnt answer any of my messages.

So my question is their any thing i can do to recover from this and hopefully get back with her.

Im new to this and ive made myself look like a right wuss so need direction.

Soz bout long post.

Ok. If you're new on PUA the first thing you should do is to READ a lot.

I recommend you to read THE GAME ( which gives you a piece of all methods ). Then you can choose one that applies more to your personality. Personally I like mistery method, and use this as the cornerstone on the beggining. Now I'm developing my own method.

Be careful with girls that say "NO". A PUA needs to have HIGH VALUE. Run for a girl only decrease your value. ( What kind of girl deserves that? ). So instead of try to regain the confidence of one girl, you should look for another girls. I'm sure there are a lot of better girls waiting for a HIGH VALUE guy.

Improve your game, and don't worry if you failed. The most important is not give up.

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"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed." - Carl Jung