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| Jester84 | PostPosted: Thu May 01, 2008 5:00 pm | |
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Posts: 2 |  Im new to the Pua world and find it interesting and a great boost in self confidence. So far Ive went sarging about 3 times and average number of approaches per night is about 2-3 goups. I have not yet had any number closes or any close really. I overcame my fear of approach, but im having trouble hitting on the target This i feel is my biggest problem.(I think that the AFC in me is waiting for the girl to make the move.) I feel like im being way to freindly and in the nice guy mode. Im not being aggressive enough in negging, and i am still nervous with talking to females. I believe most of that nervousness comes from thinking that the group knows exactly why im there;to pick one of them up. Any advice for an AFC aspiring to become a PUA?? I need to get over this obstacle!!!
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| mintbase | PostPosted: Thu May 01, 2008 6:15 pm | |
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Posts: 77 | | Hi,
Sound likes you are heading in the right direction.
Try to put it out of your mind that the group know what you are there for and remember that girls like getting picked up. They will backwards rationalise what happend the following day.
Other ideas are Body-rocking (where you faint a move to leave the group)
False time contraint (tell them you can only stay for a second).
Spend time in the field this will giv you calibration and eventually you will be able to read the group better.
Mint
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| Jester84 | PostPosted: Fri May 02, 2008 8:43 pm | |
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Posts: 2 | | The time constrain is one of those major details i overlook. I almost always forget to say it and i really need to get that in there. Also how is a good way to fake that your leaving the group. Do you say you have to go talk to your friends assertively or do you say it in a manner that lets them suggest you just stay? Or is the latter an AFC move altogether? I appreciate your reply thanx.
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