Hello all. I've just joined and here's the long wind of how I got here:

I'm 27 and been travelling solo in Europe for the last 8 months. I've joined because I too just finished 'The Game' after I had a particularly crushing travel relationship and I want to approve my skills. So far I have managed to lay 5 girls this trip, but a few of them I had a mini 'travel' relationship one would say, and after it's over my willingness to approach and confidence goes down the toilet. In addition, i've only managed to hook up with the girls save for 1 through getting decently drunk. Futhermore it has only been chicks i've met in hostels.

I always psych myself out at approaching random chicks in the loud club or pub, usually end up drinking way to much to compensate, still do not try to approach, blow a bunch of money, and then feel like shit about it the next morning. I would like to improve my sober game and not have to give myself a confidence crutch through drinking. It's been like this for years.

Anyway that's the story.

Cheers

I am waiting for the day when I won't have to listen to this name.

Welcome to the forum though. Another book I would suggest (must read) is Models by Mark Manson. IT will help you conquer your limiting/wrong beliefs about Game.

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i've found out 'the game' is a bit of running joke with my friends, whenever somebody hits a low point in the dating scene they end up randomly finding and reading that book hahah

thanks for the recommendation, i'll get on that right away